Fail

And it seems I failed again. I did not even try to go to sleep after tea, but I tough if I would manage to stay up till morning I could fix the shitty sleeping schedule. I managed to stay awake till 7am and I fell a sleep. Nice. It would have been nice if I would have the ability to relax and fall a sleep like a normal person. Funny I think the reason Im not aböe to relax is that Im scared that my bed breaks even more and I fall and hurt myself. I got awoken by my mom and she was pissed since Ive managed to drop the wrist holder I loaned from her from my improved night desk to under my bed. She also managed to find my left sock that I dropped when I finally fell a sleep. Worst is that she thanks I drop stuff under my bed while in sleep on purpose to annoy her. Sorry for typos. Im on my way to my theraphy and Im using my phone wich loves to put commas in weird places.

And for some reason I have an other problem

I've been lots of self studying lately. Like trying to get to know me and learning who I'm and what I'm good at. One thing I appearently suck at is falling a sleep. I've noticed that meanwhile some humans can decide to calm down and fall a sleep in an instant I cant do that. Okay sometimes when I have been doing something whole day I can fall a sleep but that happens usually when my body is tired. But like normally I just fall a sleep when I'm tired and wake up when I'm not tired. Now the problem is that since I've not have been anything useful today, in fact I slept till noon today I have hard time falling a sleep. I tried watching Netflix, and at the moment I have horrible headache ( I tried to take painkillers) but I m still unanble to relax or sleep. I tried listening to music yesteday for same problem. But I was still awake at 5:30 when my dad left for work. And I managed to fall a sleep after 6 am.. 

I've watched some tutorials on Youtube how to fall a sleep but I've come into conclusion that my brains just must work differentely from all other humans because I can't decide when I fall a sleep. Like at all. Same way I have zero control if I start daydreaming during the day. I've trained my mind into the point where I can  go to class and work like a normal person and after doing work I manage to fall a sleep at the evening. I even can do daily naps after work. But now since I got nothing to do I cant fall a sleep when I need. This is starting to become a serious problem and I don't like it for one bit. I wanna fall a sleep but my brains act like there was hamster running a hamsterwheel inside my head.

Then again when I was supposed to do something progressive it feels like my brains were took of by this drunken raccoon  who has not slept in a year. Oh flark I hate myself. I wish I could just fall a sleep. But nooo....

I really need to since I got therapy session tomorrow and I gotta be cheery and functional human being tomorrow. But somehow I feel like falling a part while trying to figure out what I m doing with my life. Or okay maybe I can also say that one thing that makes me tired of it is that I've been trying to avoid to decide what to do with my life.. for several years now. The fact is I m scared of change. And the unknown. I m scard I might be hurt. Till the point Im scared to go outside. I can go to the yard and the forest but I find them dull. But I m too scared that I mess úp with buss schedules and end up needing to take a taxi home and making my mom mad at me for it. 

I really wish I was more brave and more able to do stuff. But the constant fear of failure and getting lost really bothers me. In a way it chains me to the wall and I feel useless. I try to tell myself that I m not useless but I feel like Im lying to myself. Then I gather people around me that I try to encourage and help when I can not even help myself.  I need people to help around me to not feel useless. I need to feel needed. But at the same time I get mad on people for needing me. I dont know what I want.

Okay I do think I know what I want. I want a space raccoon to come and save me and snuggle me but that is not gonna happen. Lol. And I think maybe its a good thing. Because I really m not so keen on getting abducted by the demons or aliens wich I believe are the one and same bunch of the fallen angels. I really dont want anything to do with that bunch.  What I want is someone would hire me to being a writer or illustrator. But then again I find myself lost because I keep thinking that "Im bad at it." so I notice that I really dont have to courage to apply for anything or advertise myself. And that is a big problem on creative lifestyle. One should have be the courage to advertise themselves to get clients. But I dont even know what I want to do. I wanna write stuff and draw.. But I feel unsure if I'm good on neither of them.  And I kinda hope someone could help me out with this. But like I talked with my friends in real life about this. Rocket Raccoons dont exsist. I gotta figure out this myself. I m not getting any miracle husband dropped out from the sky to save my sorry ass from this mess. And seriously if someone would drop from sky I would hit them with something hard and scream and run. But like I feel like I should advertize my writing skills even they are shitty as flark. But I dont know anyone who would need a writer. Or how to apply. Is it just like "Hello, my name is Varjokani. I love to write stuff even I do dozen of spelling errors and grammar errors. Would you like to hire me to your blog/magazine/whatsoever?" Or "Hello, I can kinda draw but my art is sketchy as flark because I have bad skills pls hire me." Ya. I know I have to keep practicing before anyone is willing to take me. But I kinda wish I knew what I wanted. 

At the moment I feel like I just need to keep doing self analyzing and since I m way too lazy to keep diary on my computer that I might accidently install or destroy when installing games to my computer I decided to keep writing stuff here. No one is gonna read this anyways so I think its pretty okay to me to do all self study here. And if by miracle someone ends up reading this even years after I wanna tell you "Hello. I was Varjokani. I like rabbits and raccoons and I have depression. Wanna be friends?" Okay that sounded creepy. I dont think anyone should be my friend. I m childish and and super annoying. And no one should defienetely date me because only men I need in my life are Jesus and Rocket raccoon. They are two I cant possibly hurt or annoy. Because like I said I m  super annoying person. And super lazy. Like I should be a sleep but somehow I felt like writing and here we go again. I ve been writing nonsense again like for half an hour. Hahha. And I somehow feel that I can't stop. I feel like this weir fire burning inside me that makes me feel happy and safe. And like I was doing something useful. What a lie I know. Writing this down is not useful. Or maybe it is for future. But I'm kinda person who wants to see the effects right away. Not after dozen of years. But ya. I got lot to learn from Jesus. He has been waiting far more longer than I have. And I m almost certain he must feel super annoyed after waiting. But then again he is God and he got better nerves than I do. He loves as all even how much we fuck up in life. All we gotta do is pray for forgiveness and pray for help. I've been praying for something to do with my life and I m still waiting the sign. And at the moment I feel like if I ve managed to wait for so long I can wait bit longer. I got nothing to loose. I think. Maybe I have. But I m  way too depressed to think abou that so I think Im just gonna send this rant to be public on my blog and go drink some tea and hug my stuffed raccoon plushie and drink some tea.  I might even try to sleep after it.  

-Varjokani